Introduction: This week, we address a crucial issue affecting many students: bullying. In Islam, every individual is commanded to treat others with kindness, respect, and dignity. Bullying contradicts these teachings and is considered a major sin. Islam emphasizes justice, compassion, and the importance of not harming others with our words or actions.
“O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them. Nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other offensive names.” (Surah Al-Hujurat, 49:11)
Bullying can take many forms—physical, verbal, emotional, and even cyberbullying. It’s important to understand that any act of bullying harms others and distances a person from Allah’s mercy.
Qur’anic Verses on Bullying and Oppression:
- Surah Al-Hujurat (49:12):
“O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful.”
This verse highlights how backbiting and negative speech—forms of verbal bullying—are detestable in Islam.
- Surah Al-Isra (17:53):
“And tell My servants to say that which is best. Indeed, Satan induces dissension among them. Indeed, Satan is ever, to mankind, a clear enemy.”
We are commanded to speak kindly and avoid hurtful words, which cause division and harm in society.
- Surah An-Nisa (4:148):
“Allah does not like the public mention of evil except by one who has been wronged. And ever is Allah Hearing and Knowing.”
This verse warns against publicly shaming or ridiculing others, reminding us that Allah is always aware of our actions.
Hadith on Kindness and Oppression:
- Hadith on Oppression:
“Beware of oppression, for oppression will be darkness on the Day of Resurrection…” (Sahih Muslim 2578)
Bullying is a form of oppression, and this Hadith emphasizes that those who oppress others will face severe consequences in the Hereafter.
- Hadith on the Dangers of Insulting Others:
“It is enough evil for a Muslim to look down upon his brother Muslim. The whole of a Muslim is inviolable for another Muslim: his blood, his wealth, and his honor.” (Sahih Muslim 2564)
Bullying violates the honor and dignity of others, which is something the Prophet (PBUH) warned against.
- Hadith on Showing Mercy:
“He who does not show mercy to people, Allah will not show mercy to him.” (Sahih al-Bukhari 7376)
Islam teaches mercy and kindness in all interactions, reminding us that how we treat others reflects in how Allah will treat us.
Practical Tips for Students:
- Treat Everyone with Respect: Understand that each person deserves respect, regardless of their background or opinions.
- Stand Against Bullying: If you witness bullying, don’t stay silent. Stand up for those being mistreated and report it to a trusted adult.
- Reflect on the Consequences: Remind yourself that Allah is watching. The pain caused by bullying can leave deep scars, and accountability will follow.
- Practice Empathy and Kindness: Reach out to those who seem isolated or are victims of bullying. Kindness earns Allah’s pleasure.
Tips for Parents: How to Address Bullying
- Open Communication: Create a safe space for your children to share their experiences.
- Teach Islamic Values: Reinforce the principles of kindness, respect, and justice at home.
- Monitor Online Activity: Educate your child about cyberbullying and respectful online behavior.
- Encourage Empathy: Help your child understand the impact of their words and actions on others.
- Work with the School: Collaborate with teachers and school staff to build an anti-bullying culture.
Final Reflection:
In Islam, every form of oppression and injustice is condemned. Bullying not only causes harm in this life but also leads to consequences in the Hereafter. Let’s strive to build a school environment where every student feels safe and valued.
Call to Action for Parents and Students:
Take time this week to reflect on how you can contribute to creating a bully-free environment. Stand against injustice and help build a community that reflects the values of Islam—compassion, respect, and kindness for all.