Maintaining Ties of Kinship (Silat al-Rahm)

Qur’anic Guidance

“And be mindful of Allah, through whom you ask one another, and of the ties of kinship.
Surely Allah is ever Watchful over you.”
– Surah An-Nisa (4:1)

“And those who join that which Allah has commanded to be joined, and fear their Lord, and are afraid of the evil of their account.”
– Surah Ar-Ra’d (13:21)

The Qur’an reminds us that maintaining family ties is not only a moral virtue,
but a religious obligation that Allah praises and rewards.

Hadith of the Prophet ﷺ

“Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him maintain the bonds of kinship.”
– Sahih al-Bukhari

“The womb (rahim) is derived from the Most Merciful (ar-Rahman). Allah said: I will keep good relations
with the one who keeps relations with you, and sever relations with the one who severs you.”
– Sahih al-Bukhari and Muslim

“Silat al-Rahm increases one’s lifespan and brings blessings in rizq (provision).”
– Sahih al-Bukhari

Key Messages from Assembly – Monday 9th June 2025

• Ustadhs reminded the school that Islam places great emphasis on strengthening and preserving family ties
• Maintaining kinship is not only about relatives who are close in age or friendship, but includes all family members, including elders and extended relatives
• Even if someone in the family does not return kindness, we are still encouraged to uphold ties for the sake of Allah
• Silat al-Rahm brings barakah (blessing) in both this life and the next

Practical Applications for the School Community

For Students

• Call or message grandparents, uncles or aunts this week
• Be respectful and obedient to parents, and help out at home without being asked
• Forgive and overlook small disputes with cousins or siblings
• Learn about your family tree and honour those who came before you

For Teachers and Staff

• Share personal examples of how family ties bring strength and identity
• Encourage students to speak about their family values and cultures in a respectful environment
• Link the theme with Islamic Studies and personal development goals

For the Whole School

• Create a wall of gratitude where students write something positive about a family member
• Encourage letters or cards to be written to relatives in the UK or abroad
• Include special duas for families during collective worship or assemblies

Objective of the Week

To remind everyone that maintaining family ties is a core part of being a good Muslim.
Through kindness, forgiveness, and connection, we draw nearer to Allah and strengthen our
place in the ummah and the wider society.